MARRIAGE
No way in Turkey having more than one wife, but in our dreams always
having 2-3-4-5- I said dreaming not nightmare. Officially in old days,
before the Modern Turkish Republic, rich people were having more than
one up to four official wifes, because of the Islam under some certain
conditions such as being fair to anyone he gets marry but practically
it does not work well because no one is perfect. When you marry, you
must sign the official paper, to get divorced easily you need two months.
Marriage is really an important event in public so all family members
get involved for the preparations of ceremony. Before the marriage groom's
family visits the bride family for asking the permission of arranging
a party to announce of new couple's engagement, she and all her friends
getting henna in to their hands to color them just before one night
before they get married, the next day she wears a nice dress with a
red belt, veil to cover her face until the night she and her husband
go to bed together. Best man is the one with his wife in charge of having
the first information to pass to both groom and bride family that she
was virgin